Coastal Ocean, Lake Side, or “Into the Woods” Wedding: How to Choose a Destination Maine Wedding Setting from a Maine Wedding Photographer

If you’re not from Maine, the first thing that probably comes to mind when you hear someone is getting married there is lobster (or as the locals say, “lobstah”!!!). And while our favorite crustacean has certainly earned its place as a Maine icon, I think what truly captures couple’s hearts is the coastline. There’s something about the salty air, rocky cliffs, and endless ocean views that draws so many couples north to say, “I do“.

But here’s the thing: Maine isn’t just the coast.

From endless oceanfront venues to quiet lakes tucked between the rolling hills that feel straight out Price and Prejudice (insert Mr. Darcy strolling through a foggy field), Maine offers so many different wedding experiences.

In this blog, I’m breaking down the pros and cons of each: coastal, lakeside, and wooded Maine weddings, so you can figure out which setting feels the most like you.

Let’s break it down!!!!

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Coastal Maine Weddings

Pros:

• The ocean (obviously): The coastline creates a timeless backdrop that never needs much added. The water, rocky shores, and open skies naturally bring so much beauty to your day.
• The sunsets: As a photographer, this is one of my favorite parts of the Maine coast. Because the horizon is often wide open and uninterrupted by dense trees, coastal venues can produce some of the most breathtaking sunsets. On the right evening, the sky transforms into layers of bright orange, soft pink, lavender, and deep purple making for absolutely magical portraits.
• Harbors full of character: If you’re getting married in a charming coastal town like York, Cape Elizabeth, Camden, Boothbay Harbor, or Deer Isle, your photos get an extra dose of New England charm. Sailboats bobbing in the harbor, lobster boats returning for the evening, weathered docks, buoys, lighthouses, and marinas all create a backdrop that’s unmistakably MAINE!
• Golden hour lasts a little longer: With an open horizon over the water, you’ll often have beautiful, soft light later into the evening than you would at a wooded venue!
• A built-in vacation for your guests: Many couples choose the coast because it doubles as a weekend getaway. Guests can spend the morning exploring beaches, grabbing lobster rolls, shopping in seaside towns, or visiting a lighthouse before celebrating with you.

Cons:

• The weather: The ocean is beautiful, but it can also be unpredictable. Coastal Maine can bring wind, fog, cooler temperatures, and the occasional rainy day, especially in the shoulder seasons. A backup plan for outdoor ceremonies is always important.
• The wind: That dreamy ocean breeze can also mean a little extra movement! Veils, hair, and décor may need a bit more planning (but honestly, it can also create some amazing photos, too).
• Less privacy: Some coastal venues are located in popular tourist towns, meaning you may have beachgoers, boat traffic, or visitors nearby—especially during peak summer months.
• Higher demand and cost: Coastal venues are some of the most sought-after locations in Maine, which can mean higher pricing and limited availability, especially for summer and fall dates.
• The tides: Depending on the location, the shoreline can look completely different throughout the day. If you have your heart set on a beach ceremony or portraits by the water, timing matters.

Venues: Cliff House Maine, The Nonantum Resort, French’s Point, Spruce Point Inn Resort & Spa, The ViewPoint, Aragosta at Deer Isle

Lakeside Maine Weddings

Pros:

• The peaceful scenery. There is something incredibly calming about a Maine lake—the still water, mountain views, pine trees, and quiet surroundings create a slower, more intimate atmosphere.
• The sunsets (different from the ocean): While coastal sunsets are known for their open horizons, lakeside sunsets have their own magic. Watching the colors reflect across the water, surrounded by trees and mountains, creates a completely different kind of beauty.
• A more private experience. Many lakeside venues feel tucked away and secluded, giving couples and guests the feeling of a true Maine escape without the crowds you may find along the coast.
• The quintessential Maine feeling. Think cabins, canoes, loons calling across the water, pine forests, and cozy evenings by the fire. A lakeside wedding captures the quieter, more rustic side of Maine.
• More space and flexibility. Lakeside venues often have room for outdoor ceremonies, lawn games, tented receptions, and relaxed guest experiences.

Cons:

• Fewer venue options. While Maine has thousands of lakes, there are fewer dedicated lakeside wedding venues compared to coastal venues, so options may be more limited.
• Bugs. Mosquitoes and other insects are part of the Maine outdoors, especially near water in the warmer months. Bug planning (candles, repellents, timing) can make a big difference.
• Less of the “Maine coast” experience. If your dream wedding includes lobster boats, rocky shores, lighthouses, and salty ocean air, a lake wedding will give you a very different (but equally beautiful) version of Maine.
• Distance and accessibility. Many lake venues are more remote, which can mean longer drives for guests and fewer nearby accommodations.
• The water can be unpredictable. Wind or changing weather can affect the calm reflections and views that make lakes so beautiful, so the “perfect mirror-like lake” isn’t guaranteed.

Venues: Point Lookout Resort, The Stone Barn at Lake Sebago, Autumn Lane Estate

“Into the Woods”/Field/Barn Wedding

Pros:

• The golden hour magic: Open fields are a photographer’s dream!!! With wide, unobstructed views, you can get that warm, glowing evening light that creates romantic, timeless portraits.
• The feeling of being tucked away: Unlike coastal towns or popular waterfront locations, field weddings often feel private, peaceful, and intentional—like your own little corner of Maine.
• The natural beauty: Tall grasses, wildflowers, stone walls, rolling hills, and surrounding forests create a very authentic Maine landscape without needing much extra decoration.
• More space: Fields often allow for larger guest counts, outdoor ceremonies, cocktail hours, lawn games, and creative reception setups like sailcloth tents (wohooo)!!!

Cons:

• Weather matters. With little natural cover, fields are more exposed to sun, wind, heat, and rain. A strong backup plan is important for outdoor ceremonies and receptions.
• Limited shade. Summer afternoons can get warm, especially during peak sunlight hours. Consider tents, umbrellas, or shaded areas for guest comfort.
• Bugs and nature. Fields come with the full Maine outdoor experience—mosquitoes, ticks, and other little visitors. Planning ahead with bug control and guest communication helps.
• Less of a built-in backdrop. Unlike the ocean or a lake, fields rely more on the surrounding landscape and your design choices to create a focal point.

Venues: The 1812 Farm, Scotland Fields, Belvedere House and Gardens

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All photos by Meg Phillips Photo